9/1/2023 0 Comments Bed for 3 years old girl![]() ![]() And it seems since ive made those changes she sleeps from 7.30-8 right through to 8 the next morning! Now though we stick the cleaning in after tea and that seems to occupy her mind then we bath then quiet time, then bed. Lastly try to change your routine slightly, for eg, i used to do tea bath then quiet time with milk and a little snack and cbeebies, then do all the cleaning when she had gone to bed. Another thing would be to make sure shes getting enough out of her day to make her tired, my daughter plays in the garden for most of the day alot of the time and she loves it! Obviously this can be difficult if you dont have your own garden. ![]() My daughter used to go to bed at 7 but now i have changed that to 8 and it seems to have worked very well, an hour may not make much of a difference to us but it certainly has her. I would advise you to check theres no underlying illness or anything like that. I think she was picking colds up from nursery (shes only there one day a week) which didnt help. and ever since she was a month or two old she has slept really well and then about 7 weeks ago she started to scream and cry when i put her to bed, wake up all through the night, wake up early hours and stay up but nothing had changed in my routine! I just couldnt understand it. I dont think my mum used to believe me when i used to tell her how bad my daughter was on some days!įor example yesterday she threw a glass and me and it smashed, she pulls at her face and hair when i tell her off and i used to say shes doing it on purpose to wind me up, and my family used to say 'dont be silly' now they understand she IS doing it for a reaction, so i just dont give her the reaction shes looking for by telling her off i just take her to the naughty step. Hi, just wanted to say first of all that you sound like your doing a great job, so dont worry! So the answers from people I would like are, what do you think an appropriate bedtime for a 3 year old is? And how can I stop this outrageous behaviour? If I lose their support I feel I have no one to turn too about it anymore. And everything now is starting to get on top of me. My parents are extremely well off, even though they refuse me hand outs, they do not understand I have literally no money, even when working. On top of that struggling to make ends meet. Having to do the Mum and Dad role - working, cleaning, housework, and constant child care. The support seeking then turned into an argument, bringing me to tears as I feel they don't understand the hardship of being a single parent. They then turned round and said I do not have a good routine for her. However, my parents think 8:30pm is a good time for bed. My main question is I think 7:30pm is a perfectly reasonable time for a 3 year old to go to bed. Because I had her at 18 and have been a single parent the whole time, my parents really do look down on me and try to put down everything I do with her. ![]() Last night it became too much so I recorded it on my phone and shown my Mum how she can be, because as the only granddaughter, my parents see her as a little angel, I however, see her when the devil can appear in her. When I say goodnight, I tell her Mummy will come back up in ten minutes and give her another kiss night night so she knows I am still around.īut now she is getting up and doing the things I explained above. Nothing has changed, she has a nightlight, so it can't be fear of the dark, she has a great bedtime routine: Dinner at 5:30pm, Bath at 6:00pm, Quiet games, bedtime DVD, or cuddles and story with Mummy, 7:00pm - Drink (not bottle) of warm milk still playing quietly e.g puzzles, reading books, 7:30pm up to bed and she has quiet music on when she goes to sleep so she does not feel alone. It has come on all of a sudden within the past couple of weeks. Recently, my little girl, who has just turned 3 years old, has for some reason stopped going to bed and going to sleep when I put her, instead she refuses, kicks walls, slams doors, throws toys, screams, stands by her stairgate shouting 'Mummy!'. ![]()
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